The wedding industry wants us to simultaneously conform into the expected mold, while also "top" everything that has come before us by having the most unique wedding ever seen by mankind (or on Pinterest.) While I don't think I've generally succumbed to the pressures of the "industry," (or maybe I'm kidding myself there...) there are a few things that I realized I was overthinking, perhaps due to wanting to break free of the traditional expectations set upon brides.
Number One? My wedding ring.